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liveopened Oct 2, 2025

Can belonging be built as infrastructure rather than hoped for as a feeling?

Why the question matters

If belonging is a feeling, schools respond with campaigns and posters. If it is infrastructure, schools respond with schedules, rituals, and rooms — things that can actually be designed, funded, and maintained.

What I currently think

I currently think belonging behaves like plumbing: invisible when it works, catastrophic and expensive when it fails, and almost never credited to the person who designed it well.

What I am reading & learning

  • Culture-as-practice literature rather than culture-as-climate surveys
  • Design studies on everyday institutional space

Related journal entries

Evolution of thinking · revisited

What I thought then

Belonging is an outcome you produce with good relationships.

What I think now

Relationships are the visible layer. The structures that make certain relationships likely are the thing I actually want to study.

What changed my thinking

A week of fieldwork where the warmest adults were also the most exhausted.