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Belonging

Who feels like the room was built for them, and who is only visiting.

Journal entries

Sep 5, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Slides 35–36, closing reflection

What I first thought · I learned that · I wonder if

The prompt I gave the room at the end of the presentation, and the norms question I want every adult in a school to sit with.

Sep 4, 2026 · Field thinking · public and private school settings

Racialized rigor: pushed harder, punished faster, measured against a standard nobody names

The demand is heavier, the grace is thinner, and the whole arrangement is delivered as care. I am trying to describe how racialized rigor actually shows up in a building — because until it is describable, it is deniable.

Sep 2, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Slides 28–29

Grassroots expertise: Cheryl Poe and Maria Davis-Pierre

The people building the most useful support systems for Black autistic children and their families are not in the journals I was searching first.

Aug 29, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Slide 18

The internet let separated people find each other

A layer of shared knowledge, community, and communication that changed who could be heard — and who stopped being alone.

Aug 29, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Week 6, closing activity

Norms around us: the exercise I could not answer cleanly about my own building

I asked the room to name two or three norms at their workplace that might exclude someone with a different neurocognitive style. Then I had to answer it myself.

Aug 28, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Slide 17

"Don't mourn for us" — and the grief I had to unlearn

Jim Sinclair and Lorna Wing changed what I think a diagnosis is. And I have to admit that a small part of me grieved when my own child was diagnosed.

Aug 27, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Slides 14–16

Brad Lomax, Fannie Lou Hamer, Donald Galloway: living the intersection

Three civil rights leaders who lived the intersection of race, disability, class, and gender — and one quote I have carried my whole life without knowing whose it was.

Aug 27, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Week 6, global impact

The internet did not create neurodivergent community — it removed the barriers

Before InLv and Autistics.org, many neurodivergent people lived in deep isolation and the true population ratio was simply unknown.

Aug 25, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Week 6, advocates

"Not an appendage": the year the subject started writing

Jim Sinclair's 1993 essay reframed a sentence parents said constantly, and I have not been able to unhear it.

Aug 24, 2026 · EDOC 7120 · Global Histories and Politics in Education, Week 6

From "othered" to included: the words came before the science

Neurodivergence and neurodiversity are not two names for the same thing. One asks what is wrong with this person. The other asks what is wrong with the room.

Feb 18, 2026 · Group Work & Belonging

The hallway is a curriculum

We keep asking why students disengage in the hall between classes. But the hallway is where the real sorting happens — and we've never once designed it.

Jan 24, 2026 · Research Design

Why I can't just measure belonging

I kept reaching for a survey, then stopped. A number can tell me a student feels safe on Tuesday. It cannot tell me why they stopped raising their hand by November.

Milestones

Open questions

Research ideas

emerging

Racialized rigor — a phrase I am trying to coin

Racialized rigor: when white teachers and administrators place heavier demands on students of the global majority, believing they are preparing them for college and career, while white students in the same building are held to a lighter standard.

emerging

What a strengths-based, neuroinclusive school would actually have to change

Lawrence Fung's strengths-based model and the LEANS curriculum both exist. The gap is institutional: what a building would have to stop doing to adopt them.

developing

Belonging as designed infrastructure

A framework treating belonging as the product of maintained structures — schedule, ritual, space, interruption rights — rather than of individual warmth.

exploring

The unowned four minutes

A possible dissertation site: passing periods as the least-designed, most-revealing part of the school day.

Projects

Field Experience Seminar · Winter 2026

Field observation set: transitions

Five days of structured observation of passing periods, coded for interruption rights, greeting patterns, and route choice.

Reading & influences

Book · bell hooks

Talking Back: Thinking Feminist, Thinking Black

Hooks names the move from silence into speech as an act of resistance — "talking back" to authority as daring to have an opinion. I read this as the scholarly version of my own story: I found my voice after fifty, and it still costs something every time I use it. Essential for the voice-and-silence thread.

Book · Mary Field Belenky, Blythe McVicker Clinchy, Nancy Rule Goldberger, Jill Mattuck Tarule

Women's Ways of Knowing: The Development of Self, Voice, and Mind

Maps how women experience themselves as knowers — including "silence," a position where women feel voiceless, deaf to their own thinking, and subject to external authority. It gave me a framework for what I lived: the years of listening were not empty; they were a way of knowing I had to grow through, not just out of.

Podcast · Maria Davis-Pierre

Autism in Black

Education, advocacy training, and support for Black parents and families of autistic individuals. The expertise I most needed was not in the databases I searched first — it was in community-led work like this.

Article · Jim Sinclair, Autism Network International

"Don't Mourn for Us" (1993)

The sentence that reorganized the presentation: wishing a child did not have autism is wishing for a different child. Not an appendage. I have stopped using "child with autism" as if the noun were detachable.

Book · Temple Grandin; Donna Williams

Emergence: Labeled Autistic (1986) and Nobody Nowhere (1992)

The point where lived-experience literature became a body of evidence. These are primary sources on the inside of an experience the clinical literature described only from outside.

Article · Dr. Sue Fletcher-Watson, Salvesen Mindroom Research Centre, Edinburgh

LEANS · Learning About Neurodiversity at School

A curriculum that teaches neurodiversity to all students rather than about some of them. The clearest existing answer to "what would you actually do on Monday?"

Person · A paraprofessional at my fieldwork site

A twenty-minute hallway conversation

"The hallway is the only place the day is honest." Not published anywhere, and the single most influential sentence of my first year.

Book · Monique W. Morris

Pushout: The Criminalization of Black Girls in Schools (2016)

Corrects my default image of the punished student. Black girls are disciplined for being loud, unladylike, or insufficiently deferential — a standard that is racial and gendered at once. Reading this next to Crenshaw is what convinced me racialized rigor cannot be studied without intersectionality doing real analytic work.

Website · Sins Invalid

10 Principles of Disability Justice

The movement that grew out of — and past — the disability rights framework I presented in Week 6. Its insistence on intersectionality, leadership of the most impacted, and anti-capitalist critique of "productivity" keeps surfacing in my thinking about who schools are built to reward. This is where disability rights stops being a checklist and becomes a lens.

Article · Article on neurodiversity-affirming teaching

Rewiring How Neurodiversity Is Taught in Classrooms

Argues that neurodiversity should be taught to everyone in the room, not delivered as a service to a labeled few — the LEANS curriculum idea. If difference is ordinary, then the "extra" demands and "extra" grace in a classroom become visible as choices, and choices can be studied.